
In an excerpt, the authors state that “we often think of consensual sex as the opposite of assault. But sometimes people say yes because they are coerced. And people often consent to sex that they really enjoy and want without ever saying yes. There is an awful lot of consensual sex happening that is, as students say, ‘kind of rape-y,’ or hurtful, or not very enjoyable for one person.”
“Some students do practice affirmative consent,” the authors report. “But many others use a range of social cues to make sense of whether or not a sexual encounter was consensual or nonconsensual. They use space as a shorthand for consent in ways that highlight how campus sexual geography shapes what students do and how they understand it. Students frequently assume that someone else choosing to be alone in a room with them signifies consent.”
Jennifer S. Hirsch is a professor of sociomedical sciences at the Mailman School of Public Health at Columbia University. Shamus Khan is a professor and chair of sociology at Columbia University.


